Nov. 19th, 2018 Letter #54

This week was a bit of a bummer. Gael and Ariana didn't get baptized because their mom won't give them permission. She doesn't think they're ready yet. Chucho talked to his parents and doesn't have permission either. We're going to work more with the parents this week and we're also sending in Miguel and his mom (the family members that bring those three to church) to see if they can talk some sense into the parents. Hopefully it'll turn out. Karla and Elvira won't be getting baptized on Saturday either because they didn't go to church. They still have good intentions though so we´ll keep working with them. 

Elder Jimenez has two transfers left. He had told me that he wanted me as his last companion before we were told that we were going to be companions. Elder Robinson is indeed part of the other district, but we get along really well. He's still new, but he's got a lot of energy and a bright future. 

It's not typical to bring food to zone activities. This time around that was simply the point. I decided to make yellow death because we don't have the money to do anything else. We were going to make muddy buddies until we realized that it would cost about a week's worth of money to do it. (We're given about $100 every month and more than half of that easily goes into travel expenses with taxis and buses). 

I went to Cerro Azul to do some baptismal interviews. I was hoping that that would mean good news. One of the two people that they said was "ready" had never actually been to church before and the other had recently chatted with friends from other religions and was no longer too sure about his decision due to some comments that they had made. Just to make it a full report I'll let you know that the sister missionaries were supposed to have a baptism on Saturday, but their investigator didn't show up to her own baptismal service. So, like I said, bummer week for the district. But we're doing our best to stay in good spirits. I'm actually feeling unnaturally calm about it, but I do worry for the other missionaries. My district covers half of Tuxpan and everything north of it.

As far as I'm aware there aren't primary programs here like the ones back home. 

It was kind of hard to be productive this week because it took more than half a day to do the interviews in Cerro Azul and we lost two days of work when I had to go back to Xalapa to renew my visa. That being said, my favorite part of the week was that while we were in Xalapa I had a tiny bit of time on Wednesday before our bus left for Tuxpan so I started talking to Elder Breinholt (remember that he's still a secretary in Xalapa and, seeing as I was there to renew my visa, I went to the office). We were talking about how I had nowhere to eat that day and so he checked the schedule for where he was going to eat and it turned out that he was scheduled to eat with Sasha that day (the one we just baptized) so he called her and asked if it would be ok if two extra missionaries came to lunch. She said yes, and so we went. She was mighty surprised when I showed up in her doorway haha. It was a good time. 

For p-day we played monopoly and I won with the brown monopoly properties as the only one I owned. It was a unique game. I'll send you a picture of something that made me smile. 

Something I was looking at in my studies is godly sorrow. In True to the Faith it says that it's not something that comes as a natural consequence of sin nor by fear of punishment, but rather from knowing that you've displeased our Heavenly Father and the Savior. That's the sorrow that's necessary for repentance.

Love you,

Elder Finlinson

This is Fatima. She is being baptized this week. The zone leaders taught her. 

Nov. 12th, 2018 Letter #53

We had a miraculous turnaround this week and had five investigators in church and all five have accepted a baptismal date for either the 17th or 24th (I know that seems really sudden, but they're people who almost all have 1.Been to church several times before and 2.Have family that are members). So with Gael and Ariana (the 2 scheduled for the 17th) we visited them almost every day in the week. I will include a picture of them below. Chucho is also in the picture and will get baptized on the 24th. Elvira and Karla are the other two with dates for the 24th. Those are the core 5 for now. 

There are only 2 districts in my zone. We're the smallest zone in the mission as we have 14 missionaries. I don't know why President thinks it's Tuzpan. It's definitely Tuxpan. I've seen a few confusing signs that say Tuxpam, but never Tuzpan. 

Zone conference was really good. We only had to travel a little less than an hour to Poza Rica. We had gone to Walmart to buy food because every one or two missionaries were supposed to make something from their home for everyone to try. Elder Pearl and I made "yellow death." Do you remember that? It's the mix between Ramen and Mac & Cheese that always ends up better than it sounds. Everyone was reluctant to try it at first, but once they gave in they liked it. One sister missionary actually got a little upset when we threw away the leftovers after everyone said they were full because she thought we were going to bring it home and she said that if she would've known then she would have asked for the leftovers so she could eat them the next day. 

I studied the Spirit a lot this week and found myself a lot more in tune. I feel like my prayers were guided by the Spirit. I was rather amazed by how consistently my prayers were answered. (*I asked what some of the answers to his prayers were other than the people coming to church and baptisms. This was his response, "Even as my mom I'm sure you'd be surprised to know just how quickly I can manage to forget details. I just remember feeling really grateful at the end of every day for how I'd seen my prayers answered. Perhaps I'm simply doing a better job at recognizing the answers, but I felt that gratitude almost constantly this week." He still cracks me up.) 

I'd be cool with going back to Xanath with Elder Alor. ( *This was in response to me responding to his desire to get back in shape. Xanath was all hills).

Due to several events this week it wasn't the right week to do splits in Cerro Azul (the area furthest to the north), but I'll do them this week. Regardless of what happened though, I feel like I'm getting along with the missionaries in the district pretty well. I'm starting to have more trouble helping the sister missionaries because it's harder to get super involved in the details "Do not counsel missionaries of the opposite sex, even if you are serving in a leadership position. Such talk can lead to inappropriate feelings and relationships. Always refer such cases to your mission president." -Missionary Handbook. 

Christmas decorations are in some of the big and fancy stores, but that's about it. I think there's another holiday type deal at the start of December, but I don't remember. I was in the CCM last year at that time. 

My favorite part of the week was that I was able to do 3 Baptismal interviews this week and we put 5 people on date. So in other words we're starting to see the work progress more around here. The hardest part of the week was finding out about an incredibly hard situation that a family that the zone leaders are teaching is in. I was in their area that day to do baptismal interviews and was therefore involved when we found it out. I won't explain the details, but know that the Lord answered our prayers and things are looking better. Not perfect, but hope is on the horizon. 

A tender mercy was 1. Seeing that situation be improved and 2. Finally seeing some people in church. 

Something that made me smile was spending time with Dana. She's the 5 year-old sister of Gael and Ariana and she is the cutest little 5 year-old I've ever met. On Sunday she wore a shirt that said, in English, "Laugh, Smile, and Be Happy." After church I asked her if she knew what it meant, she said no,  then I gave her an explanation and said that it was the perfect shirt for her. She smiled, agreed and ran off to play. Oddly enough she didn't smile in the picture that I'll send and she put her sweater on before taking the picture so you won't see the shirt, but know that she's typically a ball of happiness. 

Something I loved from my study is something that I would suggest that anyone read in order to understand while we're all different, but all important. It's 1 Corinthians chapter 12. I know it's a full chapter, but I promise that it will enlighten your understanding if you read it with a Spirit willing to learn.

Love You,

Elder Finlinson

 A picture from when they visited Alamo to help with the flooding.

 A Sunday meal that the missionaries helped prepare. We made the Guacamole! They were also starting the fire with charcoal to cook steak in the background.

Ariana has the blue bow, Chucho is dressed up without the tie, Gael is in the totally casual outfit, Dana is the little one in yellow, Elder Lobo disappeared from the picture, but Miguel (the cousin of the others who is helping us teach them) fills in the spot nicely haha, and the mom of Miguel. Also Elder Pearl, Elder Jimenez, and me.

Nov.5th, 2018 Letter #52

We did indeed go to Alamo to aid in the flood relief efforts. It was humbling to see the damage that was done to some of the houses. The members who were effected had incredibly good attitudes about everything and seemed to be in good spirits. We got really dirty with the mud and the houses smelled awful, but being able to lend a hand was an enjoyable experience overall and it was cool to see some missionaries from that area that I hadn't seen for a while. 

No luck at church again. Finding ourselves in a hole we decided to be a little more interactive in ward counsel and I think we've got a plan figured out to get people to church next week. 

The rain has continued, but it's been weaker and a little less frequent so it's not a big problem. We don't live exceptionally close to the river, but the whole city lives at least somewhat close to it. 

I was able to gain a little more trust in the district this week, but there's still one missionary left that I need to get to know better. The problem isn't so much that he's stubborn or anything like that, it's more just that we don't know each other very well still. I'm planning splits with him because I just did them with his companion (that helped a lot in his companion's case), but it's been difficult because his area is 2 hours away from mine and due to several complications it's been hard to do many splits with them. 

We had neither Zone conference nor District class, but rather Zone class. Conference is between 2 zones, District is the district, and Zone Class is for 1 zone. Don't worry about keeping track of that. But it went well I suppose. 

There hasn't been much American backlash in Tuxpan. (In regards to the caravan of people trying to get to America and Trumps threats to take away aid.) 

We don't eat super weird things very often, so I've got nothing to say really about that, but I will say that we had a lot of hot chocolate with bread this week thanks to el Día de los Muertos. 

Something that made me smile was that we had to drop by Walmart to grab something for the Zone activity and as we were leaving a teenage guy chased us down and said to wait because his mom was buying stuff for us. A minute or two later she showed up with cereal, milk, and bread. She said that she knows we don't have much money as missionaries, because she used to get taught by them so she wanted to help. She kindly refused our offer to visit the church again, but she was definitely a good Christian lady. 

I studied quite a bit about Joseph Smith this week and how he acquired and used spiritual gifts. It inspired me to do the same, so I'll be focusing this week on seeking spiritual gifts. 

One cool thing about Elder Jimenez is that he has always been very open when talking to other missionaries or members about how he wanted to be my companion for a long time before it happened haha.

Looking back on this year in the mission field I can say that one thing I've learned is that it's always going to be worth holding on to the Iron Rod. I've also seen the importance of inviting others to either come back or take hold for the first time (James 5:19-20). I know that the Lord rewards sacrifices. That's something I saw with Lili (a teenager that we baptized in Xalapa). She gave up a lot to join the church, but has been rewarded with a rock-solid conviction about her newfound testimony. Another inspiring individual is the Bishop in Los Lagos. He was another among the good examples of a father who would always make time to be with his kids and get to know them individually regardless of how much time his calling and job demanded. Some of the strongest spiritual experiences have been felt while bearing pure testimony or offering an honest prayer. In the next year I hope to 1. Strengthen my dedication 2. Help more missionaries on an individual level and 3. Get back in good shape.

Love you,

Elder Finlinson

October 29th, 2018 Letter #51

The main reason why I say that it'll take a different approach with this district is because this time around I was dealt a handful of missionaries that are slow to trust new leaders. On top of that, I have never been in the same zone with any of them for a complete transfer before so I know very little about them. Those two conditions don't blend well. That being said, I feel like winning people's confidence is a stronger point for me so we're already starting to see things moving in the right direction. Little by little, but we're moving. The district class went poorly at first, but finished well (and the end is always what people leave with). 

Olga is the name of the girl, but she disappeared this week and Uriel's mom went super catholic mom mode and didn't let him come to church. So we drew a blank in church for the first time in months. I felt like we worked well this week, but obviously we're still lacking some extra umph. 

We lived with the Zone leaders for the last couple weeks, but now we have running water in our house so we've moved back into it. We're still waiting on a fridge, but that's not a huge deal. 

Zone conference is next week I think. My favorite thing about the area is member support. Everybody is willing to help. Also tracting is a lot more effective here than in Xalapa. So in short it's easier to find new investigators. That being said, I feel like it's been harder to have constant contact with them after finding them. 

There's not really anything special to smell around here, but something funny was that a kid of an investigator gave me a homemade perfume this week haha. It's definitely a feminine smell, but it's not half bad. The unusual thing about the area has been that everyone told me it would be super hot in Tuxpan, but it's pretty much just rained the whole time I've been here. Things are still going well with Elder Jimenez, he's helping a lot to gain the trust of the district because he knows the missionaries here way better than I do. 

The best part of the week was when I did splits with Elder Pearl. We had the biggest wave of blessings. We spent the whole day straight up finding new families and ended the day having found 18 new investigators. A fairly normal stat in the mission is 6-7ish in a week. So it was pretty cool. It was in the area of the Zone Leaders so the new people will be theirs, but that doesn't bother me because he and Elder Lobo are trustworthy missionaries that will certainly teach them well. The most challenging was seeing 0 investigators of ours in the church. That had me down for a minute, but I know it's simply a call to work harder. A simple, but pure principle that I found in my studies is in D&C 11:20, "Behold, this is your work, to keep my commandments, yea, with all your might, mind and strength." It points out the core of any calling or assignment that we have. Everything points back to keeping the commandments with every bit of effort.

Love you,

Elder Finlinson

October 22nd, 2018 Letter #50

Tuxpan is really cool, and it's a lot flatter that my past 2 areas. I feel like people have been pretty open when we've talked to them this week. It rained really hard on us in these last couple days, but today has been calm again. Elder Jimenez has been doing great so far. He came up with a lot of good ideas (He told me this is his 6th time in a whitewash). He has goals, plans, and seems to know what he's doing so I'm not terribly worried so far. 

I can tell you that I think this district is going to require a different approach than my old district, but I'll keep you updated on the why as we go. There's 8 missionaries in the district. Elder Sarat and Elder Yuit are in Cerro Azul. Hermana Sanchez and Hermana Becerra are in the Tenechaco ward. Elder Lobo and Elder Pearl are the zone leaders and are in Tuxpan 1. Elder Jimenez and I are in Tuxpan 2. 

We had 2 people get to church this Sunday from our area and one of them has already been to church a few times before (recently) so we talked to her after church and she said that she'd been wanting to talk to the missionaries for a while, but didn't feel comfortable saying anything. So she's an excellent candidate. Uriel also went to church for the first time. He's good friends with our Deacon's Quorum President (who is an absolute future General Authority) so he could also be a great baptismal candidate. I've heard great things about the ward, but due to very heavy rain on Saturday night the streets semi-flooded and the amount of people in church was about half of the average (67 people in church with an average of 116ish). So there's a lot of members left to meet. 

The best part of the week has been that we've found good people to teach. There's been several challenging things in the week, but they're all temporal things that should pass within a week or so (things with the new house mostly, but they're getting fixed). I haven't been in Tuxpan long enough to give you a decisive answer about the fish. Elder Jimenez gave me a charger that works for the battery in my camera so we're good. My white tie is lost somewhere I think, but don't stress it because I'm pretty sure it's unnecessary and it's just one more thing to worry about when we baptize. 

We just straight up got soaked this weekend. My boots are fried and I lost my umbrella, but a member wants to give me some boots he used on the mission that are still in good shape and I can easily buy another umbrella so don't worry, I'm on top of it. The most important thing are the covers for my scriptures.

Love you,

Elder Finlinson

Connor and his companion, Elder Jimenez decided to get some exercise because they were already soaked anyway! Look at the rain in the streetlight.

October 15th,2018 Letter #49

I will no longer be secretary here in Los Lagos. I'm gonna go open a second area in the Tuxpan Ward in the Tuxpan Stake in the city of Tuxpan. It's kinda funny because we had already made jokes about that happening because Whitewash Tuxpan Finlinson makes for a hashtag that had some missionaries laughing. I'm going to be District Leader and my companion will be Elder Jimenez from Durango. He's only got a few months left in the mission. I already know him rather well and, interestingly enough, he had already mentioned to me that he wants me to be his last companion. We did splits one time back when I was in Xanath, Papantla and he is a very talented teacher. I'm excited about the change. That being said I do feel a tad wary of the situation due to some struggles that he's had in the mission. President talked to me today about the decision and he said that it was something he felt strongly about, but he gave me a warning. He basically said, "We're putting a lot of confidence in you with this change. There are two possible outcomes here. Either he enters your game or you enter his." I'm being given a good support though. The two zone leaders that I'll have are the two that I would handpick for helping me out in this situation and they are going to be working in the same ward as us (My area is Tuxpan 2). And going back to what I mentioned at the start: He told me personally that he wanted to be my companion and he knows that I'm not into messing around so I almost want to believe that he has a desire to give one last burst of effort before going home. 

Elder Lovaas leaves Wednesday, but I leave tomorrow so we'll probably just buy a pizza tonight or something because I don't think we'll have time to do much seeing as today he has to give a conference for the new missionaries. 

We ended up with four baptisms. Juan José, Fernando, and Fernanda were fairly expected, but super special nonetheless. The baptism that really caught me off guard was Sasha. Do you remember her? She was one of our investigators for a while, but she seemed really reluctant to join the church for 2 reasons; 1. Experiences she'd had with members and 2.Hesitation to leave her old church. She got really close to getting baptized a while ago, but it didn't work out. Then she left Xalapa to visit Guadalajara for a month or so (she's from there). Well she got back late last week and told us that she wanted to talk with us. She said that she had gone to her old beloved church while on vacation and she realized that they didn't take things seriously enough in that church. She felt like they didn't do things with the order that God would have them done with and that that was something we did well in our church. So her interest was peaked once again. I won't say that she immediately accepted baptism from that moment, but after a couple of visits and a good stop in Alma 32 we were able to help her make the decision to get baptized. And It was cool because she has a daughter from Guadalajara that was visiting this week so her daughter watched her both make and follow through with the decision to be baptized so hopefully that'll turn into another baptism down the road. Sasha and Juan José chose me to baptize them so that was a neat little experience. Juan José had a cast on so we had to tape grocery bags to his arm, but all went well. 

The investigators that went to conference loved it and we're expecting 3-5 more baptisms in the area this weekend, but I'll just have to find out later seeing as I'll be in Tuxpan. 

For President's Birthday we just ate a solid meal, I don't know how to describe it but it was good. Then we had cake and left so that we wouldn't waste too much time there. I couldn't find the charger for my camera and I don't have it with me right now to check what kind of charger you'd need, but I'm sure it could wait another week. The packages get here pretty fast. Also it'd be killer if you could include covers for my scriptures because my bible is falling apart. 

Something I was looking at in my studies this week was from the teachings of the presidents of the church. It was about how we must not question the direction of our leaders in the church nor talk poorly of the Lord's anointed. It talked about how losing trust in our leaders is a step in the direction of apostasy. I find it an important principle. It's important not because the leaders are perfect and don't make mistakes, but rather because when they are weak and need support we need to be the arms that bear them up (Exodus 17:8-12). 

Also if you wanted to know, President sent me a short email this week that essentially said, "I feel very blessed to have you in this mission and to know that you are a very obedient and hardworking missionary. Thank you for your work. This month has only 3 weeks (to baptize because you can't during conference) but we'll baptize a lot. I wish you success and I love you. Do your best."

I'll throw in some pictures for you to see as well.

Love, Elder Finlinson

The first 2 pictures are my district from this last change. There's one picture of the baptisms and the rest are with the family whose kids were baptized.

I like the serious picture because due to the position of the light bulb in the room I look like I'd just barely descended from the heavens to chasten the people.

October 8th, 2018 Letter #48

This week we were able to do a lot to help our investigators. There are now probably a few secure baptisms for this next weekend, but even though the 13th is super close there are still a ton of wild cards in play. 

I really enjoyed conference. I don't know if it was because it was an exceptionally good conference or just because as a missionary the Spirit is with me more, but it was easily my favorite conference I've seen. I decided that I would write down the names of those who gave my favorite talks so that I could go over them again first, but my list ended with 12 names so it'll take a minute to take care of things. I suppose I'll tell you which ones I liked most that weren't by apostles. I'm just gonna put their last names, not as a lack of respect but rather a lack of knowledge regarding their titles: Pieper, Bowen, Gay, and the Sister (Cordon) that talked before Elder Holland. We had 8 investigators who listened to conference so I'm excited about the enthusiasm we've seen. 

For P-day we played dodgeball. We don't have any big plans still to celebrate Elder Lovaas' complete mission. In the Christmas package I might need something to charge my camera because I finally remembered to look for the charger this morning, but I couldn't find it. But hold on another week before making that call because I didn't have much time to look. 

Something cool we did this week was that President Esquihaus' birthday was yesterday and he invited us to eat dinner at his house. We had fun. The funniest thing was probably just seeing President on a happy high due to his birthday; he made some good jokes. 

Something I learned about this week stemmed from that talk by Elder Oaks that you mentioned. I feel like before the mission I had a pretty solid issue of searching spiritual knowledge through other means so that's something I have a great opportunity to change while I'm here in the mission. (Seeking spiritual knowledge through spiritual methods.)

Love you,

Elder Finlinson