Monday, November 26, 2018

Nov. 26th, 2018 Letter #55


We had a good chat with Gael and Ariana's mom. We found out the real reason why she wasn't ready to give her kids permission, resolved the problem, and they were baptized! Not only that, but she herself finally decided to come to church with Dana. And I was wrong about how old Dana was, she turns 8 on the 5th of January! So we talked to Viridiana (the mom) about baptism for both her and Dana that day and she seems semi-open about it. She's super cool with us now, we just need to teach her a little more directly and I think she herself will accept the baptism. Chuco's parents want to wait a little more, but they said they want to investigate the details a little more and his mom showed up at the baptism of Gael and Ariana as well so I think we'll see progress with time. 

Elvira and Karla had one of the strangest/most miraculous weeks I've seen thus far in the mission. Through a unique process and a few unexpected details President Esquihuas himself gave us direct permission to baptize them this week. It was pretty cool. I baptized Karla, Elder Jimenez baptized Elvira, and Miguel baptized his cousins. Usually we don't confirm, but on rare occasions we do. Karla has just showed an incredible dedication to do everything we've invited her to do and now is no longer dependent on others to help her make her decisions, which was the obstacle at first. Elvira changed her attitude after one simple act from us. She had been struggling to give up coffee so we bought her a giant container of powder to make chocolate milk instead (perhaps the reason we struggle financially?) and she just about cried from the surprise/dedication. Since then she's been pretty dedicated as well. The rest of the deal was that the Zone leaders called President saying that they were ready and whatnot, and he gave us the green light saying, "Baptize them as soon as possible." 

We saw a lot of blessings this week. Thanks to the last-second surge of baptisms we broke the record of baptisms (according to our knowledge of the history of the zone) in the Tuxpan Zone this month (the record of the zone was 11 in one month and we got 13). That was pretty exciting.  

We're having a little bit of trouble with the money right now, but I think we just need to be smarter with how we spend it. Elder Jimenez and I are indeed both staying here for the next change. 

It turns out that there is going to be a Primary Program after all. And it's only a few weeks away haha. I'm excited.

I got my package when I went for my visa. I think they get here faster than you think. Elder Jimenez will get a package soon I'm sure. He comes from a family that is pretty well-off. He's a convert of 7 years. 

It would be hard to say that there is a "best part" about being a missionary. It's a neat thing. You can definitely feel divine support and it's a great opportunity to learn how you want to live your life. It's also really special to see people change and to be an instrument in the process. 

We wash laundry at a member's house. They have a machine. It's not the like American machines, but it beats hand-washing. Then we dry the clothes on a line. 

The last thing that Elder Jimenez and I laughed about was when we were on the bus we decided to coordinate ourselves in order to synchronize our making of the "Lovaas Face." (The one we did in the pictures with the little girl). We have it down so we can do it in the same instant. 

People don't really have a particular tendency in regards to work as far as I know. But we live really close to a hospital so a lot of the people we meet from nearby work there. I haven't taken a picture with the Tuxpan sign yet. 

The best part of the week was Sunday Morning because we saw everything come together with the confirmations and there were a lot of other investigators, inactive members, and recent converts there that were there thanks to the efforts of the missionaries. Of the 13 baptized in the zone there were 9 from our ward. 5 from the Zone Leaders and 4 from us. The attendance in church on Sunday was super high. I felt really blessed that morning. 

One challenge this week was when we heard the changes. I feel like in these 6 weeks Elder Jimenez and I have gotten along well, but I also feel like it's really easy to offend his pride or make him mad. So I was kind of hoping to end things on a good note and call it a day. Sometimes I feel like I walk a thin line between trying to keep him happy and do my job. That being said, he's excited for another change together and I should be too. He can be really helpful when he's in the right mood so I'll just have to stay patient and humble and I'm sure it'll be another good change. I know the Lord knows what He's doing by keeping us together.

One thing I was meditating in my studies this week was the importance of convert retention. I was thinking about how it was odd that we were given special permission to baptize Karla and Elvira already. But I'm glad to stay in Tuxpan to keep an eye on them. 

I don't have pictures of the baptisms right now. Elder Jimenez and I both forgot cameras so we told Miguel to send us the pictures, but he didn't do it yet. I'll remind him tonight because we're going to visit his family later.
Love you,
Elder Finlinson

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