Monday, December 31, 2018

Dec.31st,2018 Letter #60


The pajama meeting was indeed on Christmas day. We did a gift exchange there. I gave away a battleship set (good for two players #missionlife) and received a tie and a T-shirt. While I was waiting for other missionaries to talk to families Elder Lobo and I went to the bus station to pick up another Elder that was visiting our zone. 

I think one gift that I've been developing a lot is that of leadership. I'm still figuring it out, but I feel like the change is notable. I think the gift of tongues has accompanied me as well.

My favorite part of the week was that there were 8 baptisms in my district this weekend! That was exciting. The challenging part of that was that we were the only companionship that didn't directly contribute to the 8. But we're getting over it by keeping our eyes on what's coming rather than what already passed.

My favorite Christmas gift was that on the 24th and 25th we had to stop by a member's house to do a couple things and while we were there one of the girls in the family (she's 15) openly expressed to us some of her doubts regarding the church (this on the 24th). We took time to address each one and she was reasonably satisfied. But I know what happens when people live according to doubts so afterwards I bore testimony of the need to live by faith over doubts and left her a few conference talks to read. We came back and verified every few days and she is now really excited about the church and is reading the Book of Mormon for the first time and says that she actually really enjoys it. So that was neat to see her get pointed in the right direction. 

This week I studied chastity and virtue quite a bit. I would venture to say that when we think about the law of chastity we typically think about the really big concepts that it covers and all too often forget about the importance of the little things. These kinds of things almost always involve the domino effect. So two important things to do to stay on track are 1. Always fight to have clean thoughts. 2. Repent and ask for more strength daily. We shouldn't wait to get a sunburn before putting on sunscreen. Likewise we shouldn't wait until we have major problems before asking for strength to avoid them.

One goal I have for the coming year is to not get tired of trying to improve. I'd also like to impact more individual missions/lives of missionaries. I'd like to be able to eat healthier. I know that's not a specific thing, but that'd be nice. Perhaps more salad wouldn't hurt the Veracruz diet. 

I think the spiritual highlight would also just be what happened with the girl that had doubts. It's incredibly crucial that we believe the gospel message by faith instead of letting doubt run our lives. I would suggest the following talk by Elder Uchtdorf: "Be Not Afraid, Only Believe".

Love you,
Elder Finlinson

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